We talk about the unforgettable love story in “A Star is Born Review”, but recently, after a friend’s recommendation, I heard about quite interesting love comedy movie, and that is “He’s Just Not That Into You” from 2009.
I think this movie will give people who have not yet married a very interesting feeling. And for the people fall in love right now, will have another comprehension.
The story is about 9 different couples, they have a conflict of opinion about love, some couple loves each other, some couple only has unrequited love. At that time, this movie says every couple will break up after watching this movie, on the other hand, it is quite a terrible movie, but I think it has a reason to be like that.
Let’s see this one of the movies that you need to collect!
The Meaning of Marry
In the eyes of modern day people, “wedding” means the “grave” of the love, also means you about to lose youth, and that is why right now we have a problem of fertility decline, and the reason divorce rate increases, even some young people never thought about marrying, though they only just need the love.
I have a real case around me to tell about that, when she saw she’s parents lost confidence in love, to be honest, I have some feelings but I agree with it after I heard this, indeed, after marriage, love looks nothing like love anymore, but many people did not think about this point and just make a promise.
But she still has a boyfriend, and he’s not the one she wants to marry, even not the one she wants to love for a long time, speaking of here, I have a little confused. It is not really like it, then why they are together?
At the time I finally know, maybe that’s the way people love in this period, just because if both have this same thought, so both don’t be responsible for this relationship, therefore, they can just have sex or call each other “baby”.
At the same time, both of them have sufficient authority (because not married yet), so they can find a better one, and infinite loop. Simply put, “Marry” for them, is to give up the right of seeking other happiness.
It also the “real promise”, and that’s everyone afraid of.
New Way of in Love
In order to respond to the way of modern-day love, any kind of dating software start appear in the market, even some game in Asia, is main by the marriage system to introduce this game, what is ridiculous, everybody tries hard to marry in the game, that’s a little bit weird.
“I mean, things have changed, people don’t meet each other organically anymore, if I would like to make myself seem more attractive to the opposite sex, I don’t go and get a new haircut, I update my profile, that’s just the way it is, you know?”
Ten years ago movie, just tells the focus of this virtual love, people don’t need a true heart to love right now, no need to think another side is a good people or not, they can love each other. This situation is completely reflected in online love, there is no gap between you and him or her through the Internet, is this more romantic?
Waiting for another one to reply, or a date on the weekend, that’s romantic. Because it makes you have time to adapt yourself, also understand the importance of love. For now, people can spend a day in front of the screen, just for keeping the love that has no benefit to both sides, technology advances but the people’s feelings are constantly squeezed.
Internet becomes a way your couple monitoring you, love to turn into a pure invisible shackle, people will get better in the past, to make a deeper impression for each date. Now, people only need to update a profile or a call of each day, you can maintaining a section is actually just for a “stable” relationship.
And those who are deeply involved will never discover because even they found out, they didn’t care at all.
Know the people we talked about earlier, in the end, they become the people never trust love, but also they are the one who knows love the most.
They don’t believe the true pure love, but on the one hand, they said that they are looking forward to such love like this, sounds like a pretty contradiction, right? But I guess this is kind of the way by a protective mechanism of human psychology, protect Itself from more damage, and look at it in a rational way.
Over time, they can’t feel the love from other people or deliberately ignoring the feeling of others. Because they are afraid to repeat the same mistakes, afraid to get hurt again, but they didn’t expect that such a self is also easy to get hurt.
In fact, love is a very easy vicious circle of things, so love needs to maintain a healthy mind, understand that you must love yourself first then you can love other one. After all, if you really want to love your companion, you have time to evaluate him or she, am I right?
No matter how old, it still will meet the love, actually, you never know real thoughts of the other side, t his is the biggest reflection of this film to the audience.
Maybe the one you love so much not that love you? Maybe he or she is not willing to marry? Or the one you unrequited love is really like you? This movie summarizes all the common problems of love, but let’s look From another angle, actually, it means many possibilities.
Maybe the one you really care about is not worth to care, or the one who always unremarkable, but always by your side is a great choice.
The beginning of “He’s Only Not That into You” looks like that’s only the thought of women, actually is not, men will have an exactly same thought too, in fact, men thought that more than women.
But in the end, everyone will find what they belong, and that experience on the way, is y our constant insistence on love, and that maybe the happiest ending at all.
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